Dating As A Christian

 

This one is for all the people out there looking for the right person to date as a Christian!

First of all, PRAY for a partner who has a relationship with God... who has Godly qualities such as (kindness, patience, humility)!

When you are serving God, you should date with the intention of getting married. Only date if you see them as a potential life long partner, evaluate to see if they would be a good fit for you. Be the person you want to marry. Get to know each other. Compare: values, morals, interests, goals, methods of worship — to see if you are compatible.

Save yourself for marriage (even if you have been in other relationships before). Set boundaries; be honorable and respectful. Decide what is allowed and what is not!

The Bible describes pure love. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, it describes how you should treat your partner: 

"LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE IS KIND, IT DOES NOT ENVY, IT DOES NOT BOAST, IT IS NOT PROUD. IT DOES NOT DISHONOR OTHERS, IT IS NOT SELF-SEEKING, IT IS NOT EASILY ANGERED, IT KEEPS NO RECORDS OF WRONGS. LOVE DOES NOT DELIGHT IN EVIL BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. IT ALWAYS PROTECTS, ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPES, ALWAYS PERSEVERES, LOVE NEVER FAILS."

There are gonna be times, when things are difficult, rely on God! There could be arguments. You might not see eye to eye, there could be grief, ups and downs. But no matter what: DO NOT TURN AGAINST EACH OTHER, TRUST IN GOD! If you can work on these things now, it will pave a way for your future. Getting through the easy times is easy. But when you get through the hard times, and even grow closer, that proves you can have a future together. Pray and trust in God to help you both find a solution.

Avoid situations that could tempt you to sin! When you have a Christ-centered relationship, you should avoid people, places, and situations where you could be tempted to do something or even say something you shouldn't; that would displease God and your partner. Don't do anything or say anything behind your partners back that you wouldn't want them doing to you. This is displeasing to God, and disproves your loyalty. Remember: WHAT IS DONE IN DARKNESS, ALWAYS COMES TO LIGHT!

Make time for each other and spend time together and do fun activities. You could go out to eat, go for a walk, a picnic, a movie, a date, worship together, pray together, there are numerous things you can do as a couple.

Spend time each day praying, reading scripture and listen for Gods calling on your life and encourage your partner to do the same. Attend worship activities together, study scriptures together, pray together, pray for each other, and support each other.

Remember this, write it down, hang it up, just remember!!

IF IT IS GODS WILL, GODS WILL, WILL BE DONE!

NOTHING COULD EVER COME BETWEEN THAT!

TRUST YOUR PARTNER, TRUST GOD AND PRAY!

WE ARE ALL EQUAL, NO ONE IS BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE!

THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR!

IF THEY BELONG TO YOU, THEY CAN'T BE TAKEN, AND IF THEY

ARE, THEY NEVER WERE YOURS!

I have studied and talked and researched and the best advise ever:

TWO IMPERFECT PEOPLE NEVER GIVING UP ON EACH OTHER

AGREE TO DISAGREE

TWO VERY GOOD FORGIVERS

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