Dating As A Christian

 

This one is for all the people out there looking for the right person to date as a Christian!

First of all, PRAY for a partner who has a relationship with God... who has Godly qualities such as (kindness, patience, humility)!

When you are serving God, you should date with the intention of getting married. Only date if you see them as a potential life long partner, evaluate to see if they would be a good fit for you. Be the person you want to marry. Get to know each other. Compare: values, morals, interests, goals, methods of worship — to see if you are compatible.

Save yourself for marriage (even if you have been in other relationships before). Set boundaries; be honorable and respectful. Decide what is allowed and what is not!

The Bible describes pure love. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, it describes how you should treat your partner: 

"LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE IS KIND, IT DOES NOT ENVY, IT DOES NOT BOAST, IT IS NOT PROUD. IT DOES NOT DISHONOR OTHERS, IT IS NOT SELF-SEEKING, IT IS NOT EASILY ANGERED, IT KEEPS NO RECORDS OF WRONGS. LOVE DOES NOT DELIGHT IN EVIL BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. IT ALWAYS PROTECTS, ALWAYS TRUSTS, ALWAYS HOPES, ALWAYS PERSEVERES, LOVE NEVER FAILS."

There are gonna be times, when things are difficult, rely on God! There could be arguments. You might not see eye to eye, there could be grief, ups and downs. But no matter what: DO NOT TURN AGAINST EACH OTHER, TRUST IN GOD! If you can work on these things now, it will pave a way for your future. Getting through the easy times is easy. But when you get through the hard times, and even grow closer, that proves you can have a future together. Pray and trust in God to help you both find a solution.

Avoid situations that could tempt you to sin! When you have a Christ-centered relationship, you should avoid people, places, and situations where you could be tempted to do something or even say something you shouldn't; that would displease God and your partner. Don't do anything or say anything behind your partners back that you wouldn't want them doing to you. This is displeasing to God, and disproves your loyalty. Remember: WHAT IS DONE IN DARKNESS, ALWAYS COMES TO LIGHT!

Make time for each other and spend time together and do fun activities. You could go out to eat, go for a walk, a picnic, a movie, a date, worship together, pray together, there are numerous things you can do as a couple.

Spend time each day praying, reading scripture and listen for Gods calling on your life and encourage your partner to do the same. Attend worship activities together, study scriptures together, pray together, pray for each other, and support each other.

Remember this, write it down, hang it up, just remember!!

IF IT IS GODS WILL, GODS WILL, WILL BE DONE!

NOTHING COULD EVER COME BETWEEN THAT!

TRUST YOUR PARTNER, TRUST GOD AND PRAY!

WE ARE ALL EQUAL, NO ONE IS BETTER THAN ANYONE ELSE!

THERE IS NOTHING TO FEAR!

IF THEY BELONG TO YOU, THEY CAN'T BE TAKEN, AND IF THEY

ARE, THEY NEVER WERE YOURS!

I have studied and talked and researched and the best advise ever:

TWO IMPERFECT PEOPLE NEVER GIVING UP ON EACH OTHER

AGREE TO DISAGREE

TWO VERY GOOD FORGIVERS

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The Ephesians Man

The Ephesians Man

(Ephesians 5:25-33)

Okay, Men. You can't expect God to give you a good woman if you are out chasing Jezebels! Godly men think with their heads...

Real men don't play games. They don't play with a woman's heart. They are the head! A real man will give up anything for his woman. God comes first; she comes second!

 

He will give up other women, social media, games, his pride, ego, etc, even his own life for her. Nothing will enter his house without going through him first. A real man realizes you are God's daughter and he respects that and waits. A real man will be faithful and loyal, he wont cheat, mistreat or abuse his woman.

He will love her, and she will never wonder about his love. He will leave his mom and dad and build a life with her, his helper. He is gentle and knows how to communicate with his woman. He wont be perfect, but he will strive to be. No such thing as a perfect person, but there is a such thing as a perfect match!

Verse 25-26: Husbands love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it: That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.

That is some powerful love right there, love your wife like Christ loved the church. Men should love their wife and protect her and willing to give up his own life for hers!

Verse 27: That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing: but that it should be holy and without blemish.

Men should be proud of their wife and be faithful and loyal, and treat her good.

Verses 28-30: So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh: bur nourisheth it and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church. For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

Men should love their wife and nourish and cherish as he does his own self. Just as Christ has done for us, the Church.

Verse 31: For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall become one flesh.

When a man and woman joins in holy matrimony, they become one flesh. Men should leave their family and make a family of their own, and love their family, and protect and provide for their family.

Hope you enjoyed!

 

The perfect match (Ephesians Man and Proverbs Woman)…

 

They will not be perfect as flesh, but they strive to be!

 

When you put God first and use the BIBLE as a roadmap, it will not be perfect, but it will be Godly and that is as close to perfect as you can get!!

 

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The Proverbs 31 Woman

To be a proverbs woman in the modern world:

• Is to be a virtuous woman with high moral standards.
• She is a good woman, she loves and respects her husband and she is faithful and loyal.
• She is good to him and talks good about him and treats him well all the days of her life.
• She is her husbands helpmate. She works hard for her family to provide for their needs and she takes care of her household (cooks, cleans, makes sure they have healthy food and clothes).
• She is also a very caring and giving woman, she gives to the poor and needy, and she helps her neighbors. She does what she can to help her husband and to provide for her family (such as a job, housewife, sell things, her own business).
• She is a woman of great strength, she takes care of herself and is there for her family day and night.
• She looks nice and dresses modestly and makes sure her family is clothed nicely as well. She is a very kind and caring woman, she has a great heart, and she is beautiful from the inside out.
• She raises her children in the ways they should go and they call her blessed and her husband is proud and praises her.
• She is a woman of honor, a woman of God, she does what she can to please Him.
• She is a very hard worker and is proud to help her husband and family.
• She is a woman that outshines the other women, because she lives for God, and she is a good, and holy virtuous woman!!